What is emotional safety? Part 1
Sex is a form of adult play! So how do you create a safe playground for it? Emotional safety is the key. People come to me because they want me…
How do I create emotional safety? Part 2
Changing your behaviors and communicating effectively - In my previous post, I discussed the foundations of emotional safety. The next part of the process is to change how we communicate.Engaging…
How’s your isolationship going?
No matter the constellation, these are challenging times for relationships. People who don't live together find physical distancing hard, they feel lonely - and uncertainty about the future of the…
Your partner wants to open your relationship – but you don’t.
Are you in a situation where your partner wants you to give them all the stability and also all the freedom? However, you’re now wondering if you can be the…
Want to open a relationship – but your partner doesn’t?
You might think an agreement to get needs met elsewhere can be the glue that can keep an otherwise great relationship going. You've heard stories from couples who've done this…
Responsive Desire
Responsive desire is one of the healthy ways that people experience sexual desire. Women and their partners in long term relationship should know this. There are three ways that lead…
Demisexuality
If you’ve ever used dating apps, you’ve seen many different labels people use to describe themselves. They don’t necessarily describe fixed identities but help people to locate each other online.…
